That really does stink, what that chick did to you. Ok, if it's a one-off shag and nothing was ongoing, but if it was more than that, it's common courtesy to say you've moved onto something else!

The Ethical Slut isn't too bad, actually. What I've mentioned are really the only negatives about it. Oh, and I get peeved with their seeming notion that people who are into group sex are somehow "freer" than everyone else, but that's a common attitude with those types.

That's a good observation about men being programmed to take no responsibility and the women in to being the moral guardians. I think happy mediums and what suits those concerned is a much better strategy.