Yeah, I don't want to say it's crap in general, because I'm sure it's an affirming resource for people who haven't quite worked out they're allowed to have all kinds of sex, or that boundaries are good, respect for others is essential, and emotional honesty is pretty imperative.

I would probably have lapped it all up when I was in my mid-late 20s and struggling with how to define myself (although I think I probably would have been put off by the emphasis on group sex), but I came to the book after I learned the basics the hard way.