I have to admit I feel a little awkward in these situations, because I'm small-breasted, or at least a size they don't make a lot of bras for even though there's enough there that bras can make a difference. And the thing is, in my life experience, the struggle that is bra shopping (and I fully understand that it's worse when they're really big) is the only downside. Otherwise, smaller-than-bra-manufacturers-believe-in seems to me all good.

I feel sort of at odds with the culture, you know? And then again, like I said, I've never heard of a woman who was unhappy about breast reduction surgery, so I think maybe "the culture" doesn't give a shit about the actual experience of having breasts.