Word. I find it interesting how many prate the "love without limits" line, and then promptly impose many explicit and undeclared rules - "twoo" poly is only what The Great God Heinlein said, or the scenario you mention, or blah de blah.

For me, too, it's about the individuals I have relationships with, on whatever level. "Poly" is the best label so far, but I do wish it didn't have quite so much baggage.