It certainly helps if you've been involved with the saner types. Also, respect, consideration and politeness go a long way too.
From what you've said, those three things were in pretty short supply with the poly people you encountered. Which is a shame, because it's always nicer to decide how you feel about something on its own merits, not because of the tosspots you encountered in relation to it.
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Date: 2005-12-06 10:24 am (UTC)From what you've said, those three things were in pretty short supply with the poly people you encountered. Which is a shame, because it's always nicer to decide how you feel about something on its own merits, not because of the tosspots you encountered in relation to it.