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Vileness
I was downloading a Firefly vid from Megaupload, and they have lots of lovely advertising for adult dating sites and the like. There's a pop-up for Passion.com which circumvents the Fx pop-up blocker, meh.
Why is it that (nearly) every profile pic on these sites is just vile? Bad underwear, bad lighting, wierd desperate cultish expressions, incredibly unflattering body postures/positions etc, flesh bared in odd ways. And we won't talk about AdultFriendFinder.com. Obviously I'm getting old: I don't ever like looking at close-up pics of genitalia. And if you're looking for another woman, surely a pic of you screwing your hubby is not really going to do the thing? (especially when you say you're NOT after MFF threesomes!)
And, for those people I might chat to online, if I say (after a while, like several sessions, in a non-sexual context) "do you have a pic?", please do NOT send a pic of your tits. Call me old-fashioned, but I'd rather see your face before getting up close and personal with other parts of your anatomy. And really, I can wait to see those parts in the flesh. If ever. Honestly. I don't need pictures of boobies, I have my own to look at, ok? Thanks.
Does anyone wonder why I prefer bi women (and lesbos, actually) who have had some experience with women before they try to get in my pants?
Why is it that (nearly) every profile pic on these sites is just vile? Bad underwear, bad lighting, wierd desperate cultish expressions, incredibly unflattering body postures/positions etc, flesh bared in odd ways. And we won't talk about AdultFriendFinder.com. Obviously I'm getting old: I don't ever like looking at close-up pics of genitalia. And if you're looking for another woman, surely a pic of you screwing your hubby is not really going to do the thing? (especially when you say you're NOT after MFF threesomes!)
And, for those people I might chat to online, if I say (after a while, like several sessions, in a non-sexual context) "do you have a pic?", please do NOT send a pic of your tits. Call me old-fashioned, but I'd rather see your face before getting up close and personal with other parts of your anatomy. And really, I can wait to see those parts in the flesh. If ever. Honestly. I don't need pictures of boobies, I have my own to look at, ok? Thanks.
Does anyone wonder why I prefer bi women (and lesbos, actually) who have had some experience with women before they try to get in my pants?
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Oh, honey. Let's face it, sites like that are not for The Likes Of Us. They're aimed squarely at men. And the people you are chatting to? Don't seem all that bright. Maybe they're flashing their boobs in a placatory, wolf-pack type move.
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I'll keep that in mind for when I really do want to see the boobs. It'd be a more creative chatup line. :-)
And you're right about the sites predominately aimed at men. I just wonder what happens to some of these women if they start liking the girlsex lots... not just when hubby is around. Acutally, I know, they email strange women pictures of their breasts when they weren't expecting them.
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Classic straight girl thing, though. I'm talking to a lesbo! Quick! She wants breasts!
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